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Still Close to the Prime Meridian

We’ve moved again, this time from London to Bedford. Not exactly by choice, more like a case of forced migration. Victor moved, Adi moved, Arun moved, and eventually we followed. First impressions of the house weren’t great, mostly thanks to the less-than-stellar service from Robinson and Hall, but we’re settling in.

Bedford is quieter, slower, and has a bit of a village feel to it. The drives are nice, and I’m looking forward to spring when they’ll probably be even better. The current coordinates are 52.1420624, -0.4771351, still not too far from the Prime Meridian.

Achan

He loved without conditions. Without expectations. In ways I understood only much later. I don’t know if I gave him even a fraction of what he gave me. I only hope he knew how deeply he was loved.

Everything I am, I owe to his quiet insistence on learning. No matter how hard life became, no matter what stood in the way, he made sure I never stopped learning.

The last thing I told him, the day before he left, was that my PhD had been awarded.
He heard it. And somehow, it felt like that was all he was waiting for.

When in Rome

Our first time in Rome and the Vatican, so we did all the touristy things. And honestly, no regrets.


The Colosseum was every bit as impressive as expected, one of those places that actually lives up to the hype.


A lot of walking, a lot of history, and a reel to remember it by.

Valentines at Paris

Paris was always on the list for Valentine’s Day.
We finally did it. No big plans, just a slow, relaxed couple of days taking in the city. But with a room with an Eiffel Tower view. 😀


Sometimes, the best way to experience a place is to do very little and let it be.

A life that never stopped Learning

January 2020 to May 2024. 4 years and 4 months. That’s how long I knew her.
And somehow, that feels both too short and long enough for her to leave a permanent mark.

My first conversation with her was on the phone. All she said was, “I’ll give you Chinnu’s number.”
The firm voice of a strict principal. Measured, No-nonsense, (almost) intimidating. I remember thinking, “mom-in-law is not good.”.

But that image didn’t last long.

Behind that voice was one of the most fun-loving and endlessly curious people I’ve known. A scholar. A university rank holder. Someone whose thirst for knowledge never slowed down. Not with age, not with responsibility, not even with failing health.

She kept learning. Always. Astrology. German Cars. Winemaking. Schools in Mumbai. Swimming. Survival Skills in Forests. Ayurveda. Anything, everything. Not because she had to, but because she wanted to.

She taught me something I’ll carry for life. That knowledge has no finish line. That nothing, not age, not profession, not health, not circumstances, not responsibilities, is an excuse to stop being curious. All it takes is the willingness to learn.

Chinnu often tells me I didn’t call her enough. She’s probably right. I could have called more. I should have. But I know that our connection was real. That I was never just a son-in-law to her. I was her son. Not her firstborn, but loved with the same certainty as her firstborn.

And that’s how I’ll always remember her. With gratitude. And with a quiet promise to never stop learning.

Goodreads: A Diamond in the Rough of Book Apps

During a recent work trip, my friend Hari visited London, and after a long day, we decided to take an evening stroll through one of my favorite parts of the city. We kicked things off at DoubleTree by Hilton London – Tower of London, walking along Three Quays Walk, Sugar Quay, and Grant Quay before stepping onto the iconic London Bridge just as the sun began to set, casting golden hues over the Thames. From there, we wandered through Queen’s Quay and London Bridge Pier, heading toward More London Place—home to the EY office where I used to work, which brought back a wave of nostalgia.

Our walk eventually led us to Vapiano for some Italian dinner, where we reminisced about old times and dived into discussions about work, life, and, of course, books. Out of the million and one topics we covered, books stole the spotlight for a while—Hari shared his latest reads and his love for audiobooks, explaining how they help him stay consistent at the gym, while I talked about my recent rediscovery of the UK’s library system and how I had finally reinstated my long-lost reading habit.

As the conversation unfolded, Hari brought up the Goodreads app. That name rang a bell—I had an account there once upon a time. During my college days, back when I was a more dedicated reader, Goodreads was my go-to place to track books and explore recommendations. I was active on the platform around the time Amazon acquired it, and for a while, it seemed like an exciting space for book lovers.

Goodreads, founded in 2007, was built on a simple but powerful premise: a social network for readers to discover, review, and discuss books. Amazon saw potential and acquired it in 2013. The move made sense—Amazon has always been obsessed with creating massive, user-generated content repositories, much like their acquisition of IMDb to dominate the movie information space. By owning Goodreads, Amazon secured a treasure trove of user-driven book ratings, reviews, and metadata, strengthening its grip on the book ecosystem.

However, while Goodreads has remained an essential tool for readers, its user experience has been frozen in time. The app functions well, has a vast catalog of books and authors, and boasts an incredibly dedicated user base. But the UI? That’s another story. It still carries the aesthetics of the early 2010s—sepia-toned, somewhat clunky, and far from optimized for today’s high-resolution screens and sleek design standards.

For a platform backed by Amazon, you’d expect better. The design choices may be nostalgic for some, evoking an old-school bookish charm, but they fail to provide the seamless, visually appealing experience modern apps demand. While competitors with better interfaces have emerged, none have yet matched Goodreads’ community engagement and data depth. And so, despite its outdated look and feel, readers keep coming back.

Goodreads continues to be a diamond in the rough—an essential tool for book lovers that desperately needs a makeover. It remains useful, but its potential is far from fully realized. One can only hope that, at some point, Amazon will invest in bringing it up to modern standards. Until then, we’ll keep scrolling through its dated interface, hoping it looks as good as it reads one day. Despite its flaws, I still find myself using Goodreads to track my reading journey. If you’re on there too, feel free to connect with me here.

Side note: It’s great to see that WordPress has a Goodreads embed module—though, as expected, the aesthetics leave much to be desired.

New Abode: Living on the Prime Meridian

So, I’ve just made a huge move—not just to a new home, but to a new city, new country, and yep, even a new continent! I’m now calling London, UK, my new abode, and guess what? I’m living right on the Prime Meridian, zero degrees longitude! Can’t help but think of Ramesh sir from school and all those geography classes where he went on about the equator, prime meridian, and the tropics of Cancer and Capricorn. It’s wild to actually be here. New place, new challenges, but I’m super excited for this fresh start!

E(nd of an infinit)Y

What is 8 if not an inverted infinity.? Feels like an eternity away that I joined EY. EY has been the crib, cradle and cycle of my professional journey and whatever I’ve learned during my stint at EY will guide me through the ‘car’s and ‘concorde’s of my career journey.

When Surprises turns into Sanctity

Few months back, I wrote about this surprise bouquet I received.

I had planned to write more about the person who sent it, and now I finally can. True to the title of that post, this person has captured my heart, and today, we got married. It was a COVID wedding, with just 10 people attending a very private and lovely ceremony.